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ABA Therapy For Teens and Other Resources

Current debit card can help teens with autism manage money.


I have really, really gone back and forth about whether or not to post about this. As my children get older I believe it is more and more important that I protect their privacy online and only share stories about them with permission. But this? ABA therapy for my teen? I have searched and searched the internet and found very little helpful information on what to expect so I am going to post some basics here to hopefully help other families.

Autism Diagnosis as a Teen

My son had a very late autism diagnosis. He was fourteen when diagnosed with severe autism. You might wonder how something like that could have been missed for so many years. It’s not that it was missed as much as camouflaged. My son diagnosed with a Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder at age 2 1/2. This used to be information we kept private but as he’s grown older we have realized it is often helpful to have a label to explain behaviors and this one is important. Many of the delays and behaviors of autism and FASD are similar but as our son has grown we have found many behaviors that are much better explained by autism than FASD.

We are still figuring this all out, but to help others ( and for the sake of posterity) here is what we are currently doing to help our son.

Teaching About Finances

We have a few jobs for my son to do to earn money around the house. The problem is money gets lost and misplaced. Most of the things our son wants to buy are purchased online (he loves to browse Amazon).

We are now using Current to help him manage his money. Current combines a debit card with a mobile app I have on my phone. With it, I am easily able to transfer money from my account to his (no need to keep cash on hand. Current has a flat yearly fee (no hidden costs) of $36.

I can add chores to my son’s and account pay him with the push of a button when he finishes. Current sets up three “wallets” for kids. One for spending, one for saving, and one for giving.

Because this is an app on my phone I can see exactly what he is spending money on. At this point, he isn’t out anywhere spending money but in the future, this will be helpful. Hopefully, this will help him get the hang of managing money with a debit card.

For my son with autism, we really have to take the long view and look at the big picture. Hopefully, someday, he will be paying his own bills with a debit card, but for now, we are using it to help him learn to manage his spending money.

ABA therapy in Our Home

We have finally, finally started ABA therapy! ABA therapy is exactly why I worked so hard to get him evaluated for autism. It took over two years but we are finally there and my son is receiving ABA therapy here at home.

Our current schedule includes an ABA therapist coming out to the house twice a day, Monday through Friday. He comes out at 7 am to help my son get out of bed and moving for school and comes at 5:30 in the evening to continue with the therapy. We are very new to this (just a couple of weeks in) so a lot of the work the therapist does is just getting my son to comply with his requests then rewarding him. Right now the requests include things like answering simple questions (what is your favorite sport, etc). Many times my son answers by writing but as he gets more used to the therapist he is answering more verbally.

Lately, the therapist has even been helping my son with school work. This might not seem like a big deal but my son has never done homework. Ever. It has always been written into his IEP that he completes any schoolwork at home. This feels really big to us!

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Swedish Fish are a big motivator during ABA therapy for our son.

ABA Therapy for a Teen

For us, ABA therapy in a teen looks like this. The therapist gives my son a job (they started with asking simple questions and now have him reading a book for 15 minutes). When he complies with a certain number of jobs (it varies so my son does not latch on to a number as the “right” number) he gets rewarded. At this point, the rewards are his favorite treats (junk food we don’t keep in the house). We are a month in now and while progress is slow, my son is complying with the requests of the therapist. I have hope for the first time in a very long time.

Giving Him a Space of His Own

Everyone shares a room in our house. Everyone except our son with autism. We figured out years ago that (no matter how crowded we were) our son needed his own space to retreat to. He gets overwhelmed with input and sensory stuff going on around him. Having his own room gives him a chance to get away from everything and everyone and decompress. He a build a fort, hide under his blankets, hide in his closet, or just enjoy some alone time.

We are still really, really new to the world of autism. Here is a list of great resources I’ve found, but I would really love your input if you have any resources you can recommend.

Other Autism Resources

Parent’s Guide: So Your Child Has Been Diagnosed with Autism from Sprout. 

I have a Pinterest board dedicated to autism articles. This is a personal reference guide for me but may be helpful to you.

Meet Penny has a category on at-home therapy for her daughter with autism.

Kori at Home has a huge list of free resources for kids with autism.

If you have a picky eater I recommend my post Resources for Picky Eaters. It is chock full of resources and methods we used to get my son (not the one with autism) to transition from being tube fed to eating 100% orally.

Meraki Lane has a great post about 13 ABA Therapy Activities for Kids with Autism.

If your child sensory issues you might want to  read my post How to Pack a Sensory-Friendly Travel Bag



  1. Melpub

    You seem amazingly resourceful–I am always so impressed. I can’t remember whether I posted this, but have you read Clara Claiborne Park’s memoirs about her autistic daughter, Elly, who is now, I believe in her forties. The first book, The Siege, was published in the dark days of the sixties, when psychiatry always blamed the mother (using the term “refrigerator mother,” no matter how much evidence to the contrary, i.e. the rest of the kids being normal). She writes in great detail in this and the sequel, Exiting Nirvana, about exercises, games, interactions that she and helpers used to help Elly grow up. Both books are extremely well written and moving–Elly is now an accomplished painter, and her paintings illustrate the second book. I think you would enjoy them and perhaps find useful material. Elly is, I think, more profoundly autistic than your son, but even so–many of the same problems are there.

    • Renee

      Our hope was to give him more personal care skills so he can have some level of independence as an adult.

  2. Kusum Gyawali

    I want aba therapy for my son he is mild autistic and I believe he can get normal after therapy. Idk why government is not paying attention in such a serious matter I want to ask government if he wants his children disable

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